How many times have I heard someone say…
“I don’t know how I am going to get thru this”
“OMG…I hate being single why did things have to turn out this way?”
We forget that “CHANGE” is inevitable and the only thing that is consistent in life.
Everything does come to an end or change.
Jobs change, children grow, neighbors move, and yes… relationships end.
Your significant other walks in the room one day and says…
I don’t love you anymore, or its not working out… at first hearing these words trigger emotions that make you feel like someone just put a knife to your gut. The pain is deep, and you may feel like your whole world just ended. The person you were so close to is now becoming someone you USE to know.
But after the tears and the heart wrenching emotions, you slowly start to realize your life is NOT over. And maybe eventually start to realize that letting someone else have that much power over our lives is crazy! Isn’t it our choice to get up each morning and make our day?
The first step in healing and dealing is taking the power back. YOU are in charge of your life, and the master of your destiny. And the only person to trust is your higher source! Once you embrace the fact that you do have control of your destiny doors will open for you.
YES there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Take time to get to know you, this is a new opportunity to relish your spirit and soul – reinvent yourself so that when the NEXT person steps into your life you will have a full tank of love to give back!
Time is your friend. Be patient and wise with it.
GO OUT to meet new single people, try new things!
(CHECK out this month’s calendar of events)
And don’t be afraid to go alone, open your mind and your heart to allow new experiences to happen. You may think the relationship was the worst thing to happen to you, but if you give yourself enough time and remain open… it could be the BEST THING that ever happen to you!
All things are not always clear when they first happen. Finish the journey then when you look back, you may find yourself saying one day
What was I thinking?
There is a lesson in every relationship so try to figure out and understand what you can learn from this experience. Prepare yourself for the next phase of your life. Try to move on without regrets and hatred – this will only keep you at a standstill.
Let go and be thankful you have time to keep on living and making your dreams a reality.
Gail Adams– Event Coordinator
On your search for the one, we make being single fun!
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